vineri, 10 august 2012

The Big Deal With Divorce And Legal Separation

By David Vleestra


These days, divorce cases are much common. It has become a pop culture. While others consider marriage as a sacred union of a man and woman, it's different in the eyes of the law. As compared to other forms of nullifying marriage, divorce is a lot easier and cheaper. It's very much in Hollywood. Our celebrity idols, which have many resources to do so, jump from one relationship to another through divorce.

Statistics show that only two countries in the world are keen when it comes to married life. Therefore, bills on divorce are not being entertained or allowed to be passed. One is the Vatican in Rome and the other is the Philippines. In the USA, it's pretty much common.

There's just a point in the marital life where both parties have to live apart from each other. It's more than the differences, misunderstandings and the fights. Sometimes, divorce is the only solution for this. By definition divorce is the complete breakdown of marriage.

But it doesn't have to end this way. Sometimes we decide due to our extreme emotions which mean we can make a wrong one. To avoid being disappointed in the end, there are methods which can be done without going through divorce immediately. Couples who are in a deep marital problem sometimes need to have some space to think things out. Again, it doesn't have to end in divorce right away. Each one needs more time to really think about their lives and eventually, should they decide to have the divorce filed, there would be no regrets.

This method is usually done through a case which usually leads to divorce. It's called legal separation. This does not end the marriage relationship. This will just require the couple to live apart from each other for a certain period until they can up with a certain decision for themselves. Other people may think that divorce and legal separation not have a difference but it's not. Both are alike but they are two different situations.

Trouble with marriage can start with legal separation. It won't end the marriage but you will have to agree on some things before living separately. There's a need to take responsibility of things like child custody, debts and more. Even if you have to decide to have divorce later on, there will be no regrets. Decisions from exaggerated emotions aren't good and it's not the way you should go. Problems always have solutions and it doesn't have to end with divorce.




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