duminică, 25 septembrie 2011

The Social Scene And A Dirty T-Shirt

By Francis Ladd


You walk yourself into a nightclub and push through the thick crowd to the bar. Once there, you get a nice drink for yourself and finally turn to the hustle and bustle to check things out. Your gaze shifts through the multitude but stops briefly on an attractive face. You do a quick scan and catch sight of someone you may like. A quick look-over is all you spare, though, because there is absolutely nothing that stands out at you.

Here's the same scenario, but just slightly different: You walk into that same bar and you order that same drink. Your eyes find the form of that attractive person, but what's this? That attractive person is still wearing a t-shirt, but it says "I Like It Dirty" on it. See how a dirty t-shirt can change everything? You are now intrigued and interested in this person, where before you could care less.

The reason for this is because everyone has one thing in common for certain, and that thing is our attraction to one another. Everyone wants attention and no one feels like they get it enough. If you make a connection through this one common denominator, then you could find yourself sharing that commonality in greater depth later in the evening. When you wear a dirty t-shirt, you are broadcasting to everyone that you're not afraid to talk about what makes everyone so nervous, and that makes you different.

It is too bad that this mutual attraction to one another carries such a stigma of fear with it. People are terrified of admitting to one another that they want to have an intimate relationship, and that's a pretty sad state of affairs for a society that's so upwardly mobile in its liberties with these things. When you cast aside those fears and display your intentions openly, it liberates others to do the same. Watch how loose and relaxed people get around you if you wear a dirty t-shirt with a sexy, humorous slogan on it.

People who have dirty things on the brain are drawn to people who seem like they have the same exact things in their mind. If you have every intention of going to a bar and bringing someone home, then it would behoove you to start the evening off with a dirty t-shirt. It doesn't matter if you're wearing it at the end of the night, but hopefully you won't be wearing much of anything by the time you lay your head down to sleep.




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