The doubt and frustration after a breakup can be maddening. Wondering if you still have a chance of getting back together with your ex can be confusing. Often what your ex says and what they do seem to be in opposition. They might tell you one thing yet you have this nagging feeling that they are still in love with you. You feel that there is still hope. You want to get back together but every attempt to reunite is met with opposition.
Sorting out your own feelings and deciding what you should do in such a situation can be heartbreaking. Does your ex still love you? Does your ex miss you? Should you try talking things through with your ex or should you wait for them to come back to you? The truth is that your ex very well might be as confused as you are right now but take a hint from these signs that your ex does still love you and hold fast to the hope that you can get back together with your ex.
While it might be a simple coincidence or your ex might just being friendly, if you hear that your ex has contacted some of your close friends or family then there's a chance that they still feel something for you. If your ex misses you or if they are looking to find out how you are, touching base with your family or friends is the next best thing to contacting you directly. It all might seem very innocent but you know in your heart that something is afoot. Your ex is having a difficult time and they want that connection with you even if it is through a third party.
You might be tempted to give your friends or family members the third degree when you hear that your ex contacted them. Resist this urge and instead remain cool and calm. Keep your private emotions and thoughts to yourself. It might be tempting to drop a few hints to your mutual friends that you miss your ex or that you are hoping to get back together. This will only make things uncomfortable for your friends and family. Make your ex contact you directly if they want to know what is going on in your life. Leave your friends and family out of your private matters until the day comes when you let them know that you're back together with your ex.
Perhaps your ex has actually tried to contact you directly. Maybe they called you or sent you a text message asking how you were or offering to give you some of the things that they still have from when you were together. This is another very good sign that your ex still has feelings for you or that they miss you. It's only natural that your ex is going to miss you. When that loss becomes overwhelming they will attempt to ease that pain by contacting you so they can hear your voice and feel that connection again. All of this is a very good sign that your ex still loves you.
Be careful not to get too excited or to think that this is your chance to get back together with your ex. Be cool and calm. If you feel that you can't remain calm and you feel the desire to beg your ex to take you back, postpone your meeting or avoid picking up the phone. Until you self-confidence has returned, you are only going to push your ex away by talking too much or bringing up the subject of getting back together. This contact from your ex is a good sign but it can be a trap that will cause you to push them further away in an attempt to get back together.
Lastly, if you are still friends with your ex on some social networking sites or you find yourself looking at their profile to find out what is going on in their life, you might be surprised by what you find. If your ex is posting pictures of what they're doing or status updates about how wonderful their life is then they very well might be missing you. Even photos of someone new that they're dating or how happy they are will be signs that they are trying too hard to prove to the world that they are happy without you.
Checking out their social networking profiles can be stressful. You never know what you're going to find. Dread overcomes you and your heart drops when you see something new. Try not to take any of this to heart. Often an ex will try just a little too hard to send a message that they're doing fine without you when in fact they are hurting. Avoiding the grieving process can backfire and cause them to break down. Be waiting for this as your opportunity to get your ex back.
Wait for any or all of these signs to appear in your life and you can be sure that your ex misses you and your love. You may be tempted to contact your ex or even voice your opinion about what they appear to be doing. Avoid this temptation and instead let your ex come to you first. Let your ex be the one that caves in. Let your ex be the first one to say I love you. Let everything happen naturally but be prepared for that moment when it arrives. Work on your self-confidence and get back to being that person that your ex fell in love with in the first place and you stand a very good chance of getting back together with your ex.
Sorting out your own feelings and deciding what you should do in such a situation can be heartbreaking. Does your ex still love you? Does your ex miss you? Should you try talking things through with your ex or should you wait for them to come back to you? The truth is that your ex very well might be as confused as you are right now but take a hint from these signs that your ex does still love you and hold fast to the hope that you can get back together with your ex.
While it might be a simple coincidence or your ex might just being friendly, if you hear that your ex has contacted some of your close friends or family then there's a chance that they still feel something for you. If your ex misses you or if they are looking to find out how you are, touching base with your family or friends is the next best thing to contacting you directly. It all might seem very innocent but you know in your heart that something is afoot. Your ex is having a difficult time and they want that connection with you even if it is through a third party.
You might be tempted to give your friends or family members the third degree when you hear that your ex contacted them. Resist this urge and instead remain cool and calm. Keep your private emotions and thoughts to yourself. It might be tempting to drop a few hints to your mutual friends that you miss your ex or that you are hoping to get back together. This will only make things uncomfortable for your friends and family. Make your ex contact you directly if they want to know what is going on in your life. Leave your friends and family out of your private matters until the day comes when you let them know that you're back together with your ex.
Perhaps your ex has actually tried to contact you directly. Maybe they called you or sent you a text message asking how you were or offering to give you some of the things that they still have from when you were together. This is another very good sign that your ex still has feelings for you or that they miss you. It's only natural that your ex is going to miss you. When that loss becomes overwhelming they will attempt to ease that pain by contacting you so they can hear your voice and feel that connection again. All of this is a very good sign that your ex still loves you.
Be careful not to get too excited or to think that this is your chance to get back together with your ex. Be cool and calm. If you feel that you can't remain calm and you feel the desire to beg your ex to take you back, postpone your meeting or avoid picking up the phone. Until you self-confidence has returned, you are only going to push your ex away by talking too much or bringing up the subject of getting back together. This contact from your ex is a good sign but it can be a trap that will cause you to push them further away in an attempt to get back together.
Lastly, if you are still friends with your ex on some social networking sites or you find yourself looking at their profile to find out what is going on in their life, you might be surprised by what you find. If your ex is posting pictures of what they're doing or status updates about how wonderful their life is then they very well might be missing you. Even photos of someone new that they're dating or how happy they are will be signs that they are trying too hard to prove to the world that they are happy without you.
Checking out their social networking profiles can be stressful. You never know what you're going to find. Dread overcomes you and your heart drops when you see something new. Try not to take any of this to heart. Often an ex will try just a little too hard to send a message that they're doing fine without you when in fact they are hurting. Avoiding the grieving process can backfire and cause them to break down. Be waiting for this as your opportunity to get your ex back.
Wait for any or all of these signs to appear in your life and you can be sure that your ex misses you and your love. You may be tempted to contact your ex or even voice your opinion about what they appear to be doing. Avoid this temptation and instead let your ex come to you first. Let your ex be the one that caves in. Let your ex be the first one to say I love you. Let everything happen naturally but be prepared for that moment when it arrives. Work on your self-confidence and get back to being that person that your ex fell in love with in the first place and you stand a very good chance of getting back together with your ex.
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